First Dance Songs
Emily has been heart set on using the song “Exceed my Expectations” by Emma Wallace for her first dance as a married woman. Despite the fact that her fiancé and I agree it might not be their best choice. The song has lyrics that some people may mistake for being racy although they’re not meant to be. Aside from that, it is a sweet song that could be the best fit as a romantic ode to one other.
When choosing your song, pick something that is representative of your relationship. Here are a few ideas to help you decide on one of the most memorable songs of your life.
1. Make it your style. Are you the type of couple that likes to be sentimental and show affection for one another often? Then maybe you should look into songs that are just as equally sappy and lovey-dovey as your relationship. Or maybe you are more traditional or are the couple that prefers a good laugh and would choose a song most people wouldn’t expect. The Knot has an article entitled “Wedding Songs: How to find your first dance song” that categorizes couples into seven groups. Take a look and you might get some inspiration for a song meant for you.
2. Be open to everything. Just because you always dreamed of having your first dance to a classic like “At Last” by Etta James doesn’t mean that it’s your best choice. You might stumble across a meaningful yet lesser-known song that defines your relationship better than anything else you’ve found. Look through songs that you both have on your iPod—you never know what can double as a wedding song. Project Wedding has a large selection of romantic wedding songs.
3. Consider choosing two. If you cant choose which way to go—classic and romantic or contemporary and fun, why not do both. Starting with a slow dance song and then evolving into an upbeat choreographed dance with your hubby can loads of fun, and not to mention will help rid you of any anxiety about being watched while you dance. Have fun with it! Take a lesson from this couple who did just that.
4. Don’t pick these. Keeper of Lists provides a list of the Top 143 Worst Wedding Song Selections. Double check to make sure your song isn’t on it. Even if you want to play it as a joke, don’t do it. They are not wedding appropriate for any type of couple.
Happy searching!
Also, if you want to get your whole wedding party involved (which is a lot of time and effort but lots of fun nonetheless,) get inspired by these guys.
